He's living off hand outs from his ex girl friends mother?

That IS seriously weird. Im sorry but it was a great read, I laughed. All I can say is that everybody gets help where they can these-days, somehow, so don't be too hard on the guy. I've also got to laugh at some of the bitchy answers to questions like these - supposedly answered by strong independent females, who often define what a man should be.... pluuuease lol what are you guys offering? Perfection? I dont think so :-)